Maybe my mom knew something I didn’t when she told me — at my friend’s dad’s funeral — that I’d always be single. I’m reconciling myself to that idea. Is that God’s Plan A or did I reject God’s Plan A for so long that my options ran out?
Are you really going to tell your girlfriend that you won’t marry her unless you test out her sexual abilities? And what if she fails the test? Do you break up with her?
Let’s admit it guys, the single life can be fun. Outside of work, we pretty much get to do what we want, when we want, without anybody telling us otherwise. Outside work, there’s no one that we’re really responsible to and no one who depends on us for anything. Many single guys just fist-pumped, “FREEDOM!” Pretty sweet, huh? Well, I’m here to tell you that being single can actually be (wait for it…) emasculating. OUCH! Yes, in a very real sense, being single prevents a man from truly living out his calling as a man, which is to lay down his life for those he loves.